Monday, August 25, 2008
Apparently I'm still on leave today. So I've 2 more days of relaxation, while Hubby starts work again today, set with a 'confirmation' and a pay raise, alhamdulillah. Back to the realities of life. Feels good to wake up and having to prepare breakfast for someone called Hubby.
Being a wife for 2 weeks has already made me realise that the road is not gonna be easy. It has made me feel more adult, more mature as a person instantly. Like the bro in law said to me, the realisation that a sibling has grown into an adult, is when he/she gets married. I guess that's why we cry during the salam session, its all these realisations that are playing in our mind. I can't let emotions take over me so easily, and I can't be as blunt with my words as I used to be. I'm lucky in the sense that I'm still living with Mum, but I know Hubby is having some difficulties adjusting (like not having a maid after him and that extra time he needs to wake up to get to work, not to mention missing his nieces who have been so close to him). But I know that is not an issue to him, being the simple and adaptive man he is. So the onus is on me to make him feel comfortable and make the transition for him as smoothly as it can be.
Meanwhile, I have to buck up on my domestic side. Like pronto. ;)
And she waves goodbye...
3:43 pm